2015-06-02 02:57:18 UTC
A man who is truly abusive would have not put up with any of her behavior. Having known any number of abusive men - and any number of women who've been with abusive men - I have to say that, if she had been with a real abuser, she would not be alive. Instead she was with me; and not only is she still alive to tell the story but she also appears to be married to another man.
Lily Allen had a song about being wooed by a social conservative. What some social conservatives like to do is criminalize the men in the liberal cultures and then appropriate for themselves the women; whom they then of course treat like complete trash. This has happened to any number of women I know. And this continues to be happening, for everyone to see, on the Internet.
I may not be perfect; but I am better than most of what such women stand to deal with. A real abuser, or a real misogynist, would have killed them for their behavior or at least did everything in his power to make sure that their lives are horrible. I know such men. They include my ex-wife's exes. And she, as someone who knows what a real abuser is, would never be so ridiculous as to call me an abuser or a misogynist.
So there you have it. I am willing to forgive and to have good will; but I am not willing to put up with wrongful accusations.
And this is especially the case when coming from a woman who has had death threats from people whom she does not see as abusers, but has had none from a man whom she does.